
Since 1969, on the last Monday of every year the United States celebrate the Memorial Day, to remember all the dead in military actions. Actually it is an ancient custom, initiated, according to official history, on May 5, 1866 in Waterloo, NY, to remember all those who had fallen in the civil war between the Union of the Northern States and the Confederation of the South.
This is a day in which we European too should join our American brothers to give thanks to all the young men and women who died to defend our lives and our freedom when we seemed to be able to think only in terms of tyranny and contempt for the human dignity. It is true that these are days in which Europe seems to be full of people who have already forgotten, or who are completely unaware of, the fact that it was not our ability with philosophical speculations, or our long and prestigious history, or our artistic talents, that saved us from Nazism and Communism. It was the braveness and the action-oriented stance of those living beyond the ocean that offered us one more opportunity to regain our way towards progress and liberty. Moreover, it is also true, as president Obama underlined in his speech for the first Memorial Day since his election at Arlington, that those who wear a uniform must be acknowledged as “the best of America” because of “their extraordinary willingness to risk their lives for people they never met.” Almost seventy years ago, we European were those people the American soldiers had never met.
On the other hand, when it comes to war and military actions in general a few more elements deserve to be added to the discussion, the day after, when the storm of commotion calms down. Values such as “love for the homeland,” “defense of one’s own identity,” “willingness to fight for one’s own beliefs” are usually treated as inspirational and absolutely positive values in our Occidental culture, and especially in the US. However, these same values are at the origin of many of the ideologies that led peoples in war against each other and against America too in the course of history. Specific, and someone would say naïve, interpretations of these same ideas are also at the origin of everyday conflicts between human beings. It seems the same old story about right and wrong wars, but it is not. Actually, there is no such thing as a right war. There are only evitable and inevitable wars, evitable and inevitable conflicts, depending on how much each of the contenders is afraid that not answering violently to a perceived threat will cause his complete annihilation and the final victory on Evil. I’m not among those who believe that there is no Right and Wrong, no Good and Evil. There is Good and there is Evil, and there are right choices and wrong choices. But no man is ontologically evil and nobody has ever made only good or bad choices in his/her entire life. Evil does not incarnate in any individual or group of individuals. Consequently, nobody who is animated by love for Good should consider his fellow human as an absolute enemy. This is why, as banal as it may seem, the best possible way to approach potential conflicts is dialogue. People must talk to each other, put aside biases, stop speculating about the negative intentions and attitudes of those they are confronting with, engage in the effort of deepening the analysis of what divides them to see if it actually regards principles that cannot be renounced, start the discussion from what they have in common, rather than from what they disagree on. This is the synthesis of that which is one of the more inspired and profound speeches offered by president Obama, the one spoken at the University of Notre Dame on May 17. Unfortunately, this is a very uncommon behavior and, what is even graver, this is especially true among politicians. Even in small towns, the perspective of gaining a little more power than others often unleashes the worst out of men. Easy, though unreliable and ill-chosen, categories like “conservative” versus “liberal,” “right” versus “left” are used to identify the friends and the enemies and, too often, the groups based on these identities only communicate with each other through insults and words of despise. Are we electors critical enough to ask to our representatives to stop using these tones and face the challenge of listening before speaking, of trying to understand before proponing our arguments as if they were our first and last word? How many little conflicts can be avoided by doing so? How many wars would then appear not that necessary after all? Let us honor our brave ones, and let us also keep working to build a world in which nobody will be forced to face the terrible choice between killing and seeing somebody else killed.
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